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Buckingham Palace weighs in on first lady's touching moment

(CNN) – First lady Michelle Obama did not breach protocol by touching Queen Elizabeth II at a reception for world leaders attending the G-20 summit, Buckingham Palace told CNN Thursday.

"It was a mutual and spontaneous display of affection and appreciation between the Queen and Michelle Obama," the Royal Press Office said in a statement Thursday. "The London Summit reception at Buckingham Palace was an informal occasion," the statement also said.

No breach of protocol occurred, according to the Royal Press Office, because Buckingham Palace does not issue instructions about how to address the Queen.


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  1. Azar

    It is much ado about nothing.Those objecting do not realize that we are in the 21st century now.

    April 2, 2009 12:01 pm at 12:01 pm |
  2. Patrick - Indianapolis

    Geez Michelle, why would you dare do something so human?? It's like you're just being a nice person or something. Disgusting. Just disgusting! haha

    April 2, 2009 12:03 pm at 12:03 pm |
  3. Much ado about nothing

    I saw the Queen place her arms around Michelle, it would be wierd if Michelle did not do the same. Much ado about nothing for reporters!

    April 2, 2009 12:04 pm at 12:04 pm |
  4. Jackie in Dallas

    1) The Queen touched Mrs. Obama first, which is an indication that she was in appreciation of our First Lady and lowering the formality of the occasion. As we are not subjects of the British, the protocol is somewhat different that it would be for a subject of the queen.
    2) It won't matter a fig to the critics of the President and First Lady, even the ones who scream and yell about the privileges of the queen and her tax free income that makes her one of the wealthiest people in the world. If there is even a ghost of a chance to criticize, they'll take it.

    April 2, 2009 12:05 pm at 12:05 pm |
  5. yasmine

    so proud of the Obamas... Michelle was beautiful and Mr Cool was at it again... being sooooooooooooooooooooo cool...

    there are some jealous people out there.... stop making up drama where there is none

    April 2, 2009 12:06 pm at 12:06 pm |
  6. thoughtful

    Good Lord have the press nothing better to do that pick on something like this. The Queen is not a god, why cant she be touched? This is the height of pretentiousness. While I realise that the above article is a clarification on another story, in this day and age that is the height of ridiculousness. Mrs O did nothing wrong and this should never been a story in this age we live in.

    April 2, 2009 12:10 pm at 12:10 pm |
  7. Dutch, Bad Newz, VA

    Did you expect Michelle to kiss the Queen's ring or something? She's a queen, not a mafia don.

    April 2, 2009 12:11 pm at 12:11 pm |
  8. Mari

    That's lovely. Regardless of "pomp and circumstance" the queen is a mere ........ mortal....... who responds to a kind gesture. Michelle is a 'real' person, and I am sure the queen was impressed with Michelle's authenticity.

    April 2, 2009 12:13 pm at 12:13 pm |
  9. Robin

    I don't always like Michelle Obama, but she did nothing wrong.

    The Queen was very warm to her and she followed suit, no protocal broken.

    April 2, 2009 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm |
  10. LUISA FROM NYC NOW IN MD

    Michelle Obama is a polished, highly educated, well-travelled lady. I am certain she was well-advised as to observing and maintaining the apprpriate protocol when engaging with the Queen. Her "cuddle" (as the British press is referring to it) with the Queen was in response to an overt show of affection from Her Majesty. The Queen touched Michelle FIRST!! The Queen, by the way, is not known for public displays of affection, so I say kudos to Michelle for garnering such a rare royal treat! She must've made a very favorable impression indeed!

    April 2, 2009 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm |
  11. Mel

    As a Canadian living in the US, that was wonderful to see. I've never seen the queen be so affectionate toward anyone. The Obama's have such an interesting, and totally effortless, effect on everyone they meet.

    April 2, 2009 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm |
  12. genell

    I think that's a wonderful thing 2 see the queen and the first lady having small talk!

    April 2, 2009 12:15 pm at 12:15 pm |
  13. Lillie

    First Lady Michelle Obama is not only beautiful but she's intelligent....educated at America's top schools!! And the Queen and Prince Philippe were so happy to meet them and the Queen not only laughed but she smiled throughout the conversation with our President and the First Lady!!! Buckingham Palace's welcome mat for Pres. and First Lady Obama were genuine NO matter how the pundits try to put a negative spin on the visit!

    April 2, 2009 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm |
  14. independent liberal

    maybe the Queen likes the First Lady? and the Queen can do what she wants, 'cuz she's , ummmm , the Queen....,

    April 2, 2009 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm |
  15. Ken in NC

    Well that's good because The First Lady didn't seem to have a problem with it either. I think it is perfectly fine if the Queen wants to touch the First Lady. I never gave a thought to the Queen touching The First Lady as a breach of protocol (smile).

    April 2, 2009 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm |
  16. Bill

    Protocol is a creation of human beings. Therefore certain human conduct should not break protocol, as long as the conduct was not inhuman or indecent.

    April 2, 2009 12:18 pm at 12:18 pm |
  17. Gloria - Minnesota

    I'm so relieved that our First Lady did not breach protocol! Whew! I was concerned this may affect the entire outcome of the G20 and forever besmirk the new, budding relationship between Great Britain and our new administration!! (I am obviously being facetious.)

    Michelle Obama is genuinely a warm, caring person, and I believe Queen Elizabeth would also enjoy being more spontaneous if the ancient traditions allowed.

    I'm proud of our President and First Lady, and it appears the world is impressed as well!!

    April 2, 2009 12:20 pm at 12:20 pm |
  18. Mike O'Brien

    Our First Lady did just fine.. Mike in Montana

    April 2, 2009 12:22 pm at 12:22 pm |
  19. Dan in NY

    If you watch the video, you see the Queen actually embraced Mrs. Obama first. It was appropriate for the First Lady to reciprocate. The First Lady made no breach of protocal.

    April 2, 2009 12:23 pm at 12:23 pm |
  20. Todd

    Imagine that.....The first wife knows nothing about proper protocol or how to properly present herself (and therefore the country) when dealing with political issues overseas!

    Sounds an awful lot like her husband!!!!

    April 2, 2009 12:23 pm at 12:23 pm |
  21. Canadian soccer mom

    Non verbal communication goes a long way to express someone's sense of another. I thought it was wonderful.

    April 2, 2009 12:24 pm at 12:24 pm |
  22. Jim El Paso Tx.

    Man...COMMON SENSE rules instead of what's politically correct! Refreshing:)

    April 2, 2009 12:25 pm at 12:25 pm |
  23. shoegazer

    Well,it certainly wasn't like she put the Queen in a headlock and"noogied"her coif'.Get over such trivial matters.

    April 2, 2009 12:27 pm at 12:27 pm |
  24. Elariia

    Given the various global crises, it's hard to believe this "touching" incident has been so touted in the MSM, especially since, we're told, the Queen touched first.

    There are so many promising advances that were made as part of the G-20 summit–the deal with Russia, for example, as well as the seeming upturn in the markets.

    Message to the MSM: Give negativity a rest!

    April 2, 2009 12:30 pm at 12:30 pm |
  25. williefloyd

    Has everyone not realized that "tongues will always wag" when the Obamas are mentioned in any way?? The old green eyed monster has to rear its' ugly head at every opportunity. I love it when her arms, which are to die for, are criticised by those with probably "flabby arms".

    April 2, 2009 12:30 pm at 12:30 pm |
  26. Pamela

    There should be more of this in the world!!

    April 2, 2009 12:32 pm at 12:32 pm |
  27. Renee

    I suspect the Queen, on some deep level, appreciated the affection.

    April 2, 2009 12:32 pm at 12:32 pm |
  28. Gary

    No big deal. this is one of the reasons we fought for our independence from England. The whole concept of kings and queens is silly. It surprises me that the world still even has kings, queens and dictators.

    April 2, 2009 12:34 pm at 12:34 pm |
  29. Sue M

    Someone out there wants to find fault in Michelle Obama, but she did nothing wrong, instead she looks so polished and quite beautiful.....

    April 2, 2009 12:34 pm at 12:34 pm |
  30. Expat American

    Wait a minute...while traveling abroad didn't Bush jr. try to open a door that wasn't actually a door and didn't his father ejection seat his lunch onto somebody?

    I'm sure Clinton's blue dress conference call wasn't protocol either.

    I don't think the First Lady caused an international incident.

    April 2, 2009 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm |
  31. Maude

    The Queen is a gracious lady as is Mrs. Obama. Both women were showing kindness and respect and a mutual liking. I somehow think that if the Queen were offended, YOU WOULD KNOW IT.

    April 2, 2009 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm |
  32. carlos

    spontaneous and warm moment between the Queen of England and our First Lady, and then the Queen said, Let's stay in touch!

    Wonderful!!!!

    April 2, 2009 12:38 pm at 12:38 pm |
  33. nick

    From da hood to a hug from a queen, as the saying once said "you come a long way baby". Good job by our First LADY Michelle Obama.

    April 2, 2009 12:39 pm at 12:39 pm |
  34. Marge

    What's the uproar about. We are not citizens of Great Britian and not bound by their rules. To show respect we should follow their rules, but the Queen herself broke the rules when she sorta hugged Michelle, and then Michelle sorta hugged her back. Get real people of Britian today is April 2009, not April 1409.

    April 2, 2009 12:39 pm at 12:39 pm |
  35. vsuade

    The only thing I detest about the Queen is her tendency to wear gloves when shaking visitors' hands. What does this really signify? That everybody else is dirty and she is clean!

    April 2, 2009 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm |
  36. B.Brown

    It was a kind gestured by the Queen that was returned by Mrs. Obama. The Obamas are a great team and they are making the United States proud. Keep up the good work and maybe Americans can travel abroad again without being scorned. I love these guys!

    April 2, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  37. AnnMM

    So many people are so jealous of the First Couple and I LOVE IT! Accept it wingnuts we have charm, grace, intelligence and charisma in the White House for the first time in 8 years and the world is embracing it. Choke on that haters.

    April 2, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  38. Greenville Grandma

    "Love makes the world go 'round..."
    We ought to do more of this instead of wars, hatreds, and all the negatives. Let's knock down all the invisible barriers that separate us,
    and reach out warmly to others in friendship! Wouldn't that be a nice change?

    April 2, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  39. JJ

    To Shoegazer:

    Funny!! You are absolutely correct.

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  40. bob from canada

    come on folks you can't be seirous.......a little affection brings you a long way

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  41. Ula Nejad Sacramento, Ca

    Hmmm. My hunch is the Queen is now accepting the fact that she is no longer the Queen of Fiji either. Iam thrilled. For hundreds of years former colonists were her majesty's servant. Now we are free. Even shoes throwers can freely express themselves. Free at last. Thank you God.

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  42. katy Heys

    Of course the palace denied any improper behavior. However, I would never touch the Queen because I would be afraid that it may be seen, as it has, as a breach in diplomacy.

    Katy

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  43. David

    Actually, the Queen broke protocol first. That's okay, we're tolerant folks.

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  44. matt

    who cares of Mrs. Obama put her hand on her back its not like the queen of england does anything anyway except sit on her old butt

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  45. Veteran in Kansas

    Reading the response in the British press it would appear that the Queen initiated to touching, and that the Brisish public and the Queen are quit taken with the Obamas. So it would appear that those individuals with no knowledge of proper protocol are the only ones that are having a problem with this meeting.

    April 2, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  46. jim

    so get over it media.the brits love mchel and president obama.its realy refreshing to see other nations taken a liken to AMERICAN FIRST FAMILY

    April 2, 2009 12:43 pm at 12:43 pm |
  47. Anonymous

    Awesome display of respect..... we can all learn from it

    April 2, 2009 12:43 pm at 12:43 pm |
  48. Sabrina

    As a Canadian watching this clip, I was pleasantly surprised to see our Queen show warmth to First Lady Michelle Obama. I can't recall ever seeing the Queen do that. She must like Michelle!

    April 2, 2009 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm |
  49. Casey

    This sort of royal idiotic pomp and circumstance is why I'm glad we had a revolution.

    April 2, 2009 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm |
  50. John

    Who cares about hoity toity old-Europe protocol?

    Only hoity toity European cultural elitists.

    April 2, 2009 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm |
  51. Kathy in Minnesota

    I know from foirst hand ewxperience what a warm and caring person First Lady Michelle Obama is.

    She was in Rochester last October for a rally on behalf of her husband. I worked that event, got a front row seat.

    After the rally, Mrs. Obama came by, shook our hands.As I held her hand, I mentioned to her how moved I was by her DNC Convention speech and how our late fathers were very much alike. She embraced me for the longest time. I gently ran my hand up and down her arm as she smiled at me.

    Michelle Obama is indeed a lovely and caring woman. It was Queen Elizabeth who was honored to be in her presence, as i had been that day in October of 2008.

    April 2, 2009 12:45 pm at 12:45 pm |
  52. Vic

    CNN must not have watched one of it's main man's show last night when a British Royalty expert explained that no protocol was breached by the mutual "touching" between Queen Elizabeth and Michelle Obama. Even if it had been a "slip-up" one has to wonder why such trite subject is relevant in the midst of the world's financial upheaval. I think we Americans have much to be proud of in the first European visit of our own first couplle.

    April 2, 2009 12:46 pm at 12:46 pm |
  53. FL Girl

    Everyone, except for the American press corp, knows and understands there was no breach of protocol....but you all are dying so much to find something negative to run with in a endless loop for your daily ratings about the Obamas! Give it up. The Obamas are loved around the world....we should be so glad and grateful as Americans that we finally have an upstanding, well educated, polished, first family to represent us....compared to the always looking drunk, can't speak a good grammatically correct sentence president we had for the last 8 yrs. who accomplished nothing but sinking the country into depression and losing the respect of everyone around the world!

    April 2, 2009 12:46 pm at 12:46 pm |
  54. Candy Cane

    This is 2009, enough of the King and Queen nonsense!!

    April 2, 2009 12:46 pm at 12:46 pm |
  55. Veronica

    To Todd:

    You are just jealous because you will never see the inside of a palace.Im glad she is representing us abroad.The both make me proud.

    April 2, 2009 12:47 pm at 12:47 pm |
  56. Colorado

    I don't get what the big deal is?

    April 2, 2009 12:47 pm at 12:47 pm |
  57. Corey

    "Imagine that…..The first wife knows nothing about proper protocol or how to properly present herself (and therefore the country) when dealing with political issues overseas!

    Sounds an awful lot like her husband!!!!"
    ------

    Todd,

    Did you read the article at all or did the Limbaugh side of your brain blcik it out? Michelle Obama DID NOT BREAK PROTOCOL. That is a direct statement from the Royal Press. Stop being so partisan! Good grief! Whether you like it or not, he is this country president and is representing all of us abroad. While in England, the president nor his wife have made ANY gaffes.

    April 2, 2009 12:47 pm at 12:47 pm |
  58. Dittohead

    the queen puts her pants on one leg at a time too. who cares?

    April 2, 2009 12:47 pm at 12:47 pm |
  59. RAG

    Todd, what would you have had her do? Sneak up behind her and giver her a shoulder rub?

    April 2, 2009 12:48 pm at 12:48 pm |
  60. dona

    The Obama Haters are soooooooo jealous of our wonderful leader! He goes to Europe and is loved by everyone. His ratings are sky high at home and his wife is stealing the show! Only 7 years and 9 months to go for the haters!!!! Rethugs fear this man! They should!!! He will be around for a while.

    April 2, 2009 12:49 pm at 12:49 pm |
  61. Joseph, Los Angeles

    Much ado-bout nothing. Typical bored media looking for something juicy. Why are American's so gullible for gaffes and always wanting our officials to fall or fail? This country has a long way to go as far as becoming a united country.

    April 2, 2009 12:50 pm at 12:50 pm |
  62. OH

    I wonder...just for the sake of wonder. I hateful people on this board have not yet gotten a grip on protocol and perhaps they are blind. Did they not see the President Obama bowed to the Saudi King?

    This is protocol and does NOT mean the President is bowing down to the King; just courtesy; Thought I’d let the beans spill while you folks are finding fault about any and everything that you know nothing about.
    Finally, you folks need to travel and get out of your trailers more often. Travel in this sense means; visiting other nations and not just another State. Try your hand at Europe, Africa, Asia, Australia, The West Indies and other places as well. “The West Indies” does not mean Indians by the way; it means all the little countries in the Caribbean. Oops! Do I have to explain where to find the Caribbean too?

    April 2, 2009 12:50 pm at 12:50 pm |
  63. one day at a time

    the queen made the first move, Michelle just followed her lead, what's wrong with people, this is rediculous.

    April 2, 2009 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm |
  64. Road to tyranny....

    At least she didn't bow down to a king like her husband did, the US President bowing to a king. What a shame.

    April 2, 2009 12:52 pm at 12:52 pm |
  65. Larry in NY

    It's good to be the Queen.

    April 2, 2009 12:52 pm at 12:52 pm |
  66. rodlang

    LOL...it didn't seem to bother the Queen so why should it bother anyone else.

    April 2, 2009 12:53 pm at 12:53 pm |
  67. Jake

    George W Bush winged at the Queen last time. He did it the old cowboys way. So what the queen is untouchable? give me a break.

    April 2, 2009 12:53 pm at 12:53 pm |
  68. Southerner

    Well, at least they didn't offer up a blockbuster video coupon as a gift.

    April 2, 2009 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm |
  69. ~~ July ~~

    I read somewhere that in 57 yrs ... the Queen has never touch someone like she touch Mrs. Obama. That it show how much the Queen liked her and the President .....

    Mrs. Obama is doing me proud ... I said ME .. I am not speaking for everyone.

    April 2, 2009 12:56 pm at 12:56 pm |
  70. Gary

    Todd, I take it you did not vote for the President? No, need to answer!

    April 2, 2009 12:56 pm at 12:56 pm |
  71. Tony G

    The Queen put her hand around our First Lady first as a sign of affection. The Palace said they have not seen the Queen do that in almost 30 years. This tells me that Michelle made quite an impression on the Queen. No breach of Protocol whatsoever.

    April 2, 2009 12:56 pm at 12:56 pm |
  72. Simpliticus

    Two "old souls" recognizing each other! How wonderful! Like Eleanor Roosevelt meeting Queen Elizabeth II years ago, perhaps this is similar in many respects. How could years of protocol by this Queen be cast aside so belatedly unless, two old souls had recognized each other! Reincarnation indeed!

    April 2, 2009 12:56 pm at 12:56 pm |
  73. Avi Shlomo

    I am glad Michelle touched her. if that was breach of protocol be it. The Royalty is not different than anyone else and perhaps this will being the Royalty be it British or else where to reality

    April 2, 2009 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm |
  74. Marcia, Marcia, Marcia in CA

    "Much Ado About Nothing"

    April 2, 2009 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm |
  75. Mimi

    The Obama's just towers over everyone. They are so tall.

    We should always so respect to one another, but at the same time we don't want to give any man or woman the kind reverence that is only due to God.

    April 2, 2009 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm |
  76. Sam

    The Queen didn't care. Despite appearances to the contrary, she is not nearly as stuffy as you would think. She moves with the times, as much as a lady in her 80s can. Don't forget that she's got a lot of young grandkids who aren't even slightly traditional. It looked like a spontaneous gesture from Mrs. Obama to the Queen, who also reciprocated. The whole thing lasted under 10 seconds.

    April 2, 2009 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm |
  77. Leilani

    Why is this news?

    April 2, 2009 03:11 pm at 3:11 pm |
  78. jeanne

    no jackets in the oval office, no sleeves in the palace........YIKES!!!!

    April 2, 2009 03:11 pm at 3:11 pm |
  79. Truth Hurts

    It is ashame how the conservatives are hating on the Obama's. And they are trying to restore respect and fix the economy in the U.S.A The conservatives are so hell bent on President Obama failing, that they can't see the good that he is already doing!! Conservatives get your head out of your butt and maybe you can see things better!! LOL

    I think the conservatives are just made because the Bush's never got a grand welcome in different countries around the world!!

    April 2, 2009 03:11 pm at 3:11 pm |