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A pricey proposal

The nephew of Maryland Democratic Sen. Ben Cardin has apologized for using resources of the Baltimore City Police Department as part of a marriage proposal.
The nephew of Maryland Democratic Sen. Ben Cardin has apologized for using resources of the Baltimore City Police Department as part of a marriage proposal.

WASHINGTON (CNN) - Sen. Ben Cardin's nephew apologized Wednesday for going a bit, well, overboard, for proposing to future wife with a staged police search on his boat in Baltimore's Inner Harbor.

On August 7, Jon S. Cardin, a Maryland delegate, reportedly organized a boat ride with some friends and his now fiancee in the Inner Harbor in Baltimore. With a helicopter hovering overhead and marine police searching the boat, Cardin popped the question.

Cardin said said he had asked the police to do the "routine five-minute safety check." He said he will contact the Baltimore City Police Department and reimburse them for any costs incurred.

"During the evening, I was focused on making my fiancee's night perfect," Cardin said in a statement posted on his Web site. "In retrospect I should have considered that city resources would be involved and used better judgment to put a stop to it."

She said yes.


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  1. MM

    oh blech.

    August 19, 2009 12:01 pm at 12:01 pm |
  2. Roy

    How romantic.

    August 19, 2009 12:09 pm at 12:09 pm |
  3. Melissa

    They just don't get it.

    August 19, 2009 12:12 pm at 12:12 pm |
  4. Pay Up

    Send him a bill!

    August 19, 2009 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm |
  5. Pepou

    Reimburse all the costs, stupid moron. You should be in jail.

    August 19, 2009 12:14 pm at 12:14 pm |
  6. DJ

    Give him a break...let them get married already. People should be happy for him, sounds like a great idea.

    August 19, 2009 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm |
  7. Anonymous

    Give me a break, he's paying for it. What's wrong with you people? Do you complain for fun?

    August 19, 2009 12:17 pm at 12:17 pm |
  8. I miss Bob Novak

    Sen. Cardin is a Democrat. Somehow CNN neglected to mention it.
    I'm sure it was just an oversight.

    August 19, 2009 12:18 pm at 12:18 pm |
  9. Allen from Texas

    Isn't the police's job to "protect and serve"... sounds like a good idea for service.

    August 19, 2009 12:20 pm at 12:20 pm |
  10. Njfinest2009

    I agree How romantic, but aint nothing going on but the rent! You gotta have a J.O.B. if ya want to be with me..

    August 19, 2009 12:20 pm at 12:20 pm |
  11. No More Incumbents

    And let's get some pictures of Air Force One by the Statue of Liberty.....

    August 19, 2009 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm |
  12. Kdgreat

    This country is officially a joke.

    August 19, 2009 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm |
  13. Obama 2.0

    Just pay for it out of your own pocket.

    August 19, 2009 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm |
  14. I Can See Argentina from my Front Porch

    I don't see the point in this. Is a police raid suppose to be romantic??
    What ever happened to having a nice quiet dinner and proposing there??

    August 19, 2009 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm |
  15. Diane

    C'mon folks.....can't we relax just a bit once in a while? You've never done anything stupid out of love? Yes, he should have to pay for it, but he offered to do that and has apologized. It's not a big deal in the whole scheme of things, is it?

    August 19, 2009 12:22 pm at 12:22 pm |
  16. Bill

    Sure he's paying. He got caught. Looks like Cabinet material to me.

    August 19, 2009 12:22 pm at 12:22 pm |
  17. Wise Latina

    And so I assume this free spending (of our money) Dem is reimbursing the city for the $100k or so of resources that this used....

    August 19, 2009 12:24 pm at 12:24 pm |
  18. JR

    What a jerk!

    August 19, 2009 12:25 pm at 12:25 pm |
  19. fellow from chicago

    Lighten up people. I'm a Conservative Republican and this young guy came up with a different idea to propose to his loved one. Good for him. When he did it I'm sure he wasn't thinking he was doing anything wrong, and as long as he'll pay for the city expense incurred and the city resources weren't diverted from responding to an emergency, then good for him and I hope him and his young bride-to-be well.

    August 19, 2009 12:25 pm at 12:25 pm |
  20. Chico

    "During the evening, I was focused on making my fiancee's night perfect,"

    I can't think of a more perfect way to propose to my future wife than by having the cops raid my boat on a romantic cruise.

    August 19, 2009 12:25 pm at 12:25 pm |
  21. Bill

    Police officers are humans too, like others they have fun on the job and stage a few harmless dramas on special occassions as a wedding proposal and from time to time to entertain each other. Nothing wrong with that. But a politician, specifically one related to a senator should've used better judgement in using PD time & resources. Give them a break.

    August 19, 2009 12:26 pm at 12:26 pm |
  22. ThinkAgain

    Jeez, if having a police search is this guy's idea of "a perfect night," I'd hate to see his nightmare scenario ...

    August 19, 2009 12:26 pm at 12:26 pm |
  23. Post always rejected by CNN

    Again - what's news about this. So a member of congress is responsible for what a relative did.? Tell me how you can control all your relatives from embarrassing you and I WILL BE ONE HUNDRED PER CENT GRATFUL.....

    August 19, 2009 12:27 pm at 12:27 pm |
  24. josh

    Cardin said said he had asked the police to do the "routine five-minute safety check." and the Baltimore City Police Department agreed to do it??? lol

    I think the Chief of Police should get fired!

    August 19, 2009 12:27 pm at 12:27 pm |
  25. Joe

    I am embarassed to be a citizen under this kind of government. I really am. It's just going to get worse too. No one is even trying to stop it.

    August 19, 2009 12:27 pm at 12:27 pm |
  26. LacrosseMom

    MORE tabloid news!

    August 19, 2009 12:28 pm at 12:28 pm |
  27. Gerald

    And who are the officers and supervisors that thought any of this made sense. There is a bigger problem here than simply the waste of resources.

    August 19, 2009 12:32 pm at 12:32 pm |
  28. Mississippi Mike

    Abuse of power? What abuse of power?

    August 19, 2009 12:33 pm at 12:33 pm |
  29. C.K.

    What a moron. I'd be embarrased if my fiancee proposed to me that way, cops, helicoptor...sounds like an episode of COPS. I would've said no and asked the police to escort me out of there. What an idiot!

    August 19, 2009 12:33 pm at 12:33 pm |
  30. HS

    Did any of you read it? It was his NEPHEW. Who might just be a republican, you don't know. Besides, since when should anyone have to answer for the poor judgement of a distant relative?

    August 19, 2009 12:34 pm at 12:34 pm |
  31. Matt

    Is anything dealing with the nephew of a junior senator from Maryland really worth reporting nationally?

    August 19, 2009 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm |
  32. Nerd Girl

    I don't get it. Seriously. I read this 3x. Can't imagine why he chose to propose this way. But, he's paying the city back, so all is well I suppose. To each his/her own.

    August 19, 2009 12:40 pm at 12:40 pm |
  33. sunshine

    sounds like a spoiled brat, pay back the city and keep your private life to yourself.

    August 19, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  34. Are you kidding

    Why is this news? The "nephew of a Senator" is completely irrelevant to the general population. As someone else said, you can't control all your relatives from embarrassing you. Almost everyone has some moron in their family who does embarrasing things and we don't walk around taking blame for what a cousin, neice, nephew or uncle did. Do better CNN. This is tabloid journalism at its finest.

    August 19, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  35. Chris from NC

    I've heard of being romantic or cheesy when popping the question. But this was downright stupid.

    August 19, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  36. joe

    Not only should he pay for associated costs, but he should be jailed for misappropriation of public resources.

    August 19, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  37. Anjhula Singh Bais

    Classic case of watered down power, a couple degree's removed. Interesting mind set, in that it didn't even cross the mind before the proposal that these are public resources. The entitlement is sad, but perhaps a facet of youth. On a related note, what does staging a search have to do with a proposal?! This is not clear.

    August 19, 2009 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm |
  38. Debra from Georgia

    So what, I think it is nice and romantic. However, CNN needs to find some real news.

    August 19, 2009 12:42 pm at 12:42 pm |
  39. mjm

    When I first read this all I could say was "huh?"

    I can't see what this has to do with anything.

    Isn't there an opinion poll on Palin you could report on?

    August 19, 2009 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm |
  40. Alison

    She said YES???

    August 19, 2009 12:47 pm at 12:47 pm |
  41. Robin in Tampa, FL

    In hind sight it was a probably a bad idea but in the end he agreed to reimburse the police for their time.

    August 19, 2009 12:49 pm at 12:49 pm |
  42. Andrew

    This drips corruption...

    And why would you want police searching your boat when you propose? Is that supposed to be some caveman-like show of strength? At least use a city barge reserved for the fourth of july to shoot up fireworks or something. Instead, oh no police are searching my boat for something illegal... Will you marry me?

    August 19, 2009 12:49 pm at 12:49 pm |
  43. Mike

    Some people just don't think. What made him think he could use taxpayer funded resources for his own personal pleasure?

    No matter how you slice this it stinks. Doesn't matter if you're Repub or Dem. It would stink either way.

    August 19, 2009 12:50 pm at 12:50 pm |
  44. SwissChick

    Yeah. I'd be swooning over my boyfriend if he proposed in that manner.....
    What an idiot.

    August 19, 2009 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm |
  45. New Yorker

    What do you expect? His daddy's party has taught him, by example, that it's fine to use other peoples' hard earned $$ for your own personal whims and pleasure.

    August 19, 2009 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm |
  46. Crazy

    "During the evening I was focused on making my fiancee's night perfect"????????????? Seriously.

    What a jerk.

    First of all, there is absolutely nothing romantic about what he planned. It was stupid, and would have scared me if I was his fiancee.

    Secondly......you were focused on making her night perfect? Do I really need to know that??? Could he not have thought of a better way to phrase his apology??????

    He is a jerk with a feeling of entitlement, and should pay for this nonsense.

    This is not about conservative or liberal. It is about jerk and non-jerk

    August 19, 2009 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm |
  47. Ted

    MORON. So are these morons going to pay the city back?

    August 19, 2009 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm |
  48. Rumsfeld

    Send him the bill and make sure that it is noted in the city newspaper under the public information section.

    August 19, 2009 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm |
  49. Mark

    As a Republican, I will say that his idea was pretty stupid, but he's paying everything back, so relly no big deal.

    August 19, 2009 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm |
  50. Jake

    A police raid is not romantic.... this was a greedy powerplay.
    And they even had a police helicopter hovering??
    Foolish. The Police force should be embarrassed.

    August 19, 2009 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm |
  51. bj

    Just how is this political??? Because his uncle is a political figure?? Stupidity comes in many forms and we are seeing by many of the posts twisting every act into something political. And we wonder why this country is such a mess.

    The only time we seem to work together is when there is a major tragedy. Heaven help us to survive the hostility that has permeated our country with true understanding of issues and compassion for those in hopeless situations. And that it doesn't come about when there is another major event to hit our country.

    August 19, 2009 12:55 pm at 12:55 pm |
  52. Mike, FL

    I agree this is over the top and stupid, but how is the senator to blame for something his nephew did????

    Can all of you who are blaming the senator here tell me you can control and take responsibility for your family members??????

    August 19, 2009 12:56 pm at 12:56 pm |
  53. Randy

    Yawn...who cares. I can't believe that some people are making a big deal out of this.

    August 19, 2009 12:57 pm at 12:57 pm |
  54. Yvonne

    What ever happened to a quiet, romantic proposal? Everyone wants to be over the top these days...making this guy look like an idiot.

    August 19, 2009 12:59 pm at 12:59 pm |
  55. Jim

    "This country is officially a joke."

    i burst out laughing because of this.

    August 19, 2009 01:02 pm at 1:02 pm |
  56. Alex

    This kind of thing happens all over the country, as our quasi-royalty pretends to care about our struggles. Clueless and spending our hard-earned money. He's only contrite and willing to reimburse because someone called him out on it.

    August 19, 2009 01:02 pm at 1:02 pm |
  57. CharmCityCharmer

    This is Baltimore, which has one of the highest murder rates in the nation. There are drug dealers on nearly every corner. "The Wire" may have been fiction, but it was as close to real as any TV show I've ever seen.

    Point being, at any given moment there are crimes being committed. These cops were focused on making the experience "perfect"...and short-changed the residents of this city in the process.

    And as a woman, if I was on a boat that had "contraband" and was turned around to be handcuffed with a helicopter hovering, I'd probably pee my pants. It would be a relief to discover that I wasn't going to jail, but I would probably slap him for scaring me like that. Definitely not romantic.

    August 19, 2009 01:04 pm at 1:04 pm |
  58. They call me "Tater Salad"

    The taxpayer's of Maryland must be real happy right now!

    August 19, 2009 01:06 pm at 1:06 pm |
  59. CharmCityCharmer

    It's considered "political" because the nephew is a delegate for Baltimore County.

    August 19, 2009 01:08 pm at 1:08 pm |
  60. Willy Brown

    It's always "ok" when democrats waste tax payers dollars...

    August 19, 2009 01:10 pm at 1:10 pm |
  61. Naldo

    Yes, every anniversary she can look forward to a NARC team turning her house upside down looking for contraband. Dogs everywhere, pillows being ripped apart, wardrobe callously tossed from the closet onto the floor, the scuff marks of 20 pairs of boots accross her floors, the scent of sweat and cordite in the air. And of course, the spectacle of police vehicles at your home and men with rifles and flak jackets going in and out.

    Nice way to freak out your pets, your kids, your neighbors. Like a garden party, yes? What woman wouldn't want this kind of emotional trauma every year? Will kids be carted off to juve hall for their birthdays? "Happy birthday son. Step away from the bars!"

    August 19, 2009 01:12 pm at 1:12 pm |
  62. JGM

    If his uncle hadn't been Mayor he would never have had access to city resources. Now that she has said yes, he needs to write a check and an apology to the city for taking up taxpayer resources and money.

    August 19, 2009 01:12 pm at 1:12 pm |
  63. Kevin

    It sounds as though the brass at the police departrment who approved this need to be reprimanded. They should have never entertained the idea.

    August 19, 2009 01:13 pm at 1:13 pm |
  64. Mark

    Oh for crying out loud who cares, the cops were doing their jobs. At the instigation of the Groom to be. Safety Inspection of his boat nothing wrong with that. and BTW I give the guy cudos for originality.

    August 19, 2009 01:13 pm at 1:13 pm |
  65. Tina

    Shouldn't the police have known this was a misuse of funds? Dumb idea all around. At least he realized that and is paying back.

    August 19, 2009 01:14 pm at 1:14 pm |
  66. Phil

    CNN omitted the Democratic party affiliation of both Cardin's mentioned in the story. I'm sure CNN would have done the same had they been Republicans though (yeah, I busted out laughing halfway through typing that).

    August 19, 2009 01:15 pm at 1:15 pm |
  67. tate

    typical for a democrat police are always after them, what a bunch of dirt bags.

    August 19, 2009 01:16 pm at 1:16 pm |
  68. Marie MD

    Did he use fund from the City of Baltimore? The same city that is asking for public contributions so they can continue their mounted police unit?
    If so, he should pay it all back and make sure those horses stay on the job.

    August 19, 2009 01:18 pm at 1:18 pm |
  69. Fran

    The only reason he said he'd reimburse the city was because he was caught.......

    August 19, 2009 01:18 pm at 1:18 pm |
  70. Mike

    How stupid are you, Cardin? This is a police force, not your personal entertainers. I'm sorry, but if you need to do this, at least pick some officers who are off duty...

    August 19, 2009 01:18 pm at 1:18 pm |
  71. Richie

    Are you kidding me? SHE is an idiot.

    August 19, 2009 01:19 pm at 1:19 pm |
  72. MMhmm

    gee..another Republican smear tactic so they can get votes in 2010? I swear, this is ALL republican politicans care about, is winning elections and destroying people's livelihood! Trying to destroy obama's healthcare plan, or offering some crappy co-op option that they KNOW won't work, just so they can watch it crumble then say in 2010/2012 "see what the democrats put together for you, it doesn't work" and BRAINWASH the mentally challenged non self thinking independents out there that will swing to the right side cuz they're easily fooled! I'm so sick of the republican party!

    August 19, 2009 01:21 pm at 1:21 pm |
  73. Richie

    The next headline will be Ben Cardin's nephew was arrested for spousal abuse.

    August 19, 2009 01:23 pm at 1:23 pm |
  74. Jane/Seattle

    This just simply shows an incident of poor judgment. I don't see a Federal case. it does smack of a bit of elitism. Let it go because he is paying the city back. No big deal. I'd like to see the very serious fraud taking place make the news–like the fact that George W. bush and Dick Cheney et al have not been arrested yet. Now this would be a timely story.

    August 19, 2009 01:24 pm at 1:24 pm |
  75. Randi L.

    It's always a bad decision for politicians to use government resources for their own purely private purposes. Tally up the costs of the helicopter and the police boat, and the officer time and send him a bill.

    Sounds like Delegate Jon Cardin has been watching the show Punk'd a little too much. He punk'd his girlfriend and the taxpayers both.

    August 19, 2009 01:24 pm at 1:24 pm |
  76. Redwhiteandblue

    Cardin knew that the police would not say NO to him. That's why he asked. He knew that they would not charge him either. He took advantage of his uncle's connections and power. That must be embarrassing for the senator. Jon Cardin acted like a brat when he made his request to the police and the police acted stupidly by executing it. What ever happened to human decency and good common sense?

    August 19, 2009 01:30 pm at 1:30 pm |
  77. john

    If I misused company resources at work I'd be fired, why should politicians (Rep or Dem) live under different rules? He should resign or be removed. We're in a recession and he's waisting taxpayers' money. The only reason he said he'd pay the money back is because he got caught! How can we trust politicians to run anything if they abuse their power so blatently?

    August 19, 2009 01:31 pm at 1:31 pm |
  78. DT

    IF you Repub fools would read the ENTIRE article, it states the funds will be paid back...stop cryin...

    August 19, 2009 01:33 pm at 1:33 pm |
  79. Jackie in Dallas

    I'd have said NO for scaring me to death. What was he thinking? Armed police, a helicopter hovering overhead? This guy not only shouldn't get married, he's not bright enough to encourage to reproduce!

    August 19, 2009 01:35 pm at 1:35 pm |
  80. Proud Member..Party of No

    Not necessarily a democrat or republican issue but I would like to know....who at the Baltimore Police Department approved this and why?

    August 19, 2009 01:35 pm at 1:35 pm |
  81. Kim in AZ

    What about a police search makes the night perfect? What an idi@t.

    August 19, 2009 01:36 pm at 1:36 pm |
  82. gt

    stupid is as stupid does.... what waste of money... get a life dude...

    August 19, 2009 01:36 pm at 1:36 pm |
  83. Bubba

    Um, there's no fool like an old fool? And what a hoot this would have been if she'd said "NO!" Also, who cares what party he belongs to? It's no dumber than Palin's kids riding free all over the USA or our local Georgia governor wanting to fly the helicopter during a visit somewhere. People talk themselves into things and then feel, well, STUPID.

    August 19, 2009 01:37 pm at 1:37 pm |
  84. cgillette

    this needs to be followed by an indictment.

    August 19, 2009 01:37 pm at 1:37 pm |
  85. David

    Wow, that guy is a tool. Heterosexual marriage proposals like this are so gauche. If this was the proposal, can you imagine what this boy scout and his bridezilla's wedding budget is going to be? Gauche, tacky, immoral. I actually hope their marriage fails, as a testament to these tacky and out dated courtship rituals.

    August 19, 2009 01:38 pm at 1:38 pm |
  86. Nifty 60 female in Colorado

    People, wake up and look at the bigger picture here. For one, he was using taxpayer money for this stint. No way he did not know that it was illegal. Two, if he could have gotten away with it he would have, and that is why it is news. If he didn't have the political connection he could have never pulled this off in the first place. Any other Joe Doe misappropriating public funds, I work for the US government and hold their credit card, would go to jail. We should NEVER let anyone get away or shove the issue under the rug, that takes our money for private use.

    August 19, 2009 01:39 pm at 1:39 pm |
  87. New Age Democrat

    "routine five-minute safety check."... I doubt this usually includes a police helicopter. Whoever authorized this should be fired.

    This is a blatant misuse of public funds and resources.

    August 19, 2009 01:40 pm at 1:40 pm |
  88. AnnU

    Hey, give the guy a break. He wanted something his bride to be will forever remember. What is the big deal if the law enforcement helped him a little bit? Everything should not always be about money.

    Have some fun and laugh while doing it...

    August 19, 2009 01:40 pm at 1:40 pm |
  89. Ren from Baltimore

    Aplogize secondly to your uncle, who is a fine Senator and representative of our fine state of Maryland.

    August 19, 2009 01:40 pm at 1:40 pm |
  90. kh

    on the bright side he will be married soon, and he will learn the TRUE consequences of bad ideas.

    August 19, 2009 01:41 pm at 1:41 pm |
  91. Tedra

    What??? A Democrat wasting govt resources?? Can't Be.

    August 19, 2009 01:41 pm at 1:41 pm |
  92. Bev - NYC

    A staged police raid is considered a perfect proposal ? What kind of kinky role playing are they into? Dude, whatever you have planned for the bachelor party, re-think it now.

    August 19, 2009 01:42 pm at 1:42 pm |
  93. bozo the obama

    Amazing...a LIBERAL operative actually apologising.

    August 19, 2009 01:42 pm at 1:42 pm |
  94. Alex

    I did not read where he is paying all that money back! Somebody probably needed the police for say, A CRIME!! Very selfish of him, but I am sure, we the tax payers will pay for it and the wedding, the kids, the grand kids.....

    August 19, 2009 01:43 pm at 1:43 pm |
  95. Hugo

    Figures he would be a Democrat....they just do not get it that someone has to pay for those cops and helicopters and boats to play in his little love scheme. Same applies for all those wanting government option healthcare, YOU will pay for it one way or the other in taxes or increased costs in consumed goods. Too bad for the working class!

    August 19, 2009 01:44 pm at 1:44 pm |
  96. Judy

    The point is not that he is a senator's nephew but that he, himself, is an elected official in Maryland. The nephew is a state delegate.

    August 19, 2009 01:44 pm at 1:44 pm |
  97. phoenix mattress

    good one.

    August 19, 2009 01:44 pm at 1:44 pm |
  98. How lame!

    So the only chance he had of getting a "yes" was to freak her out first and not have her thinking clearly? Gotcha. Because a police raid isn't romantic.

    August 19, 2009 01:46 pm at 1:46 pm |
  99. RealityKing

    The "city resources" would have been wasted either way. The only difference is that the hopeless and hapless of Baltimore weren't being further victimized by their obese big brother in the process.

    August 19, 2009 01:47 pm at 1:47 pm |
  100. Ron

    To everyone who wants to jump at every chance at incidents involving a politician....chill out.

    I've heard of firemen using their trucks and coworkers to stage a rescue 'proposal'. How about using the jumbo-trons at games? The guy is a nephew so who gives a hoot? If a normal, random guy with no political ties had contacted his police dept to help something up like this then it probably would've been overlooked.

    Perhaps some of you wished you were able to pull off something like that with your proposals. Fess up!

    August 19, 2009 01:47 pm at 1:47 pm |
  101. Kelli

    Some people should actually read the article before commenting.

    He clearly stated in the article that he would be paying the city back for expenses so all those saying "when is he going to pay" or "send him a bill" are a little behind at this point as he has already agreed to pay it back.

    August 19, 2009 01:48 pm at 1:48 pm |
  102. Linda in Los Angeles

    Two schools of thought: 1), this shows how narcissic our society has become – when what one wants trumps what is best for all (since she said yes, she is in even worse state than he). 2), this is exactly why our county is in such dire staits. Recovering – baloney. We are mired in debt that will only increase due to our present situations and our continuous infighting over what to do and when.

    August 19, 2009 01:48 pm at 1:48 pm |
  103. GM from MN

    What a joke.

    Also not only is this guy an idiot who I doubt will fully reimburse the citizens for this, but how in the heck did he get this arranged?

    I mean who else was involved? The police chief should be fired along with any other top officers who gave clearance for such an OBVIOUS WASTE.

    All those involved should be demoted and charged with some sort of offense.........I suggest "THEFT".

    August 19, 2009 01:48 pm at 1:48 pm |
  104. Maggie

    I think this proposal sounds like fun. Maybe she loves cop shows! While it may seem over the top or unromantic to the bloggers here- all people are different. Excuse me that it wasn't the same old quite and romantic proposal. Some people like really funny and creative things. If someone staged a drug deal for me- I would think it was kind of weird but hilarious at the same time. Good for you! Just pay for it out of your own pocket next time.

    August 19, 2009 01:49 pm at 1:49 pm |
  105. David

    He's willing to pay back the costs so get over it. Was it a bad idea, yes but he is doing the right thing now. Move along people, there's real news somewhere.

    August 19, 2009 01:50 pm at 1:50 pm |
  106. J.

    He's not just the nephew of a Senator.

    He's a Maryland delegate himself, probably elected on his uncle's name recognition.

    August 19, 2009 01:50 pm at 1:50 pm |
  107. Glennis

    What an idiot.

    August 19, 2009 01:51 pm at 1:51 pm |
  108. a progressive liberal and proud of it

    What a moron! Too bad she didn't tell him "NO! You're too stupid for me to marry!"

    August 19, 2009 01:52 pm at 1:52 pm |
  109. Ron

    Another thing...I definitely would like to know why the author had to connect this incident with Sen. Cardin? His nephew's decision to do this kind of proposal had no connection to the senator's professional business unless we really know that Sen. Cardin pre-approved it. There's a disconnect so we're all wondering why the proposal is 'political'.

    August 19, 2009 01:52 pm at 1:52 pm |
  110. Brad

    I think he was going more for surprise than romance. I'm sure he accomplished that.

    August 19, 2009 01:53 pm at 1:53 pm |
  111. a progressive liberal and proud of it

    People please stop trying to turn this into a political statement, for crying out loud!

    August 19, 2009 01:53 pm at 1:53 pm |
  112. Kevin

    They better stay married more than 2 months!

    August 19, 2009 01:54 pm at 1:54 pm |
  113. Yawning

    If only he were a Republican...

    August 19, 2009 01:55 pm at 1:55 pm |
  114. larrywi

    The amount of stupidity displayed by so many people these days simply astounds me. The audacity of orchestrating something like this defies even simple logic!

    August 19, 2009 01:55 pm at 1:55 pm |
  115. Mark

    In this case Police should be the one who feel the heat. How Stupid can you be to use your public trust this way..
    Dumb!

    August 19, 2009 01:58 pm at 1:58 pm |
  116. jrod

    Jon Cardin is a delegate in MD. so he IS a political figure. Despite being a Dem, i get annoyed when any political figure (and he is one, albeit small) uses power like that to do stuff normal people cant.

    August 19, 2009 02:00 pm at 2:00 pm |
  117. Shari, NY

    The party affiliation of his uncle is not the issue because there are families whose houses are divided. The fact is that the young man is head over heals in love with this lady and wanted to make a statement to the world. Unfortunately his inner child took over and caused a problem which he fixed. This is not smart. He could have taken her to a field and asked a skywriter to oblige, or taken her to a show/concert and ask the announcer to do something special for him. Law enforcement personnel already have their hands full and work with a tight budget to be bothered with the likes of such frivolity.

    August 19, 2009 02:01 pm at 2:01 pm |
  118. Paul

    He was foolish to think it would not leak out and cause concern. He embarrassed his uncle and himself, BUT it is not a big deal at all. Who among you has not thought or carried out a stupid idea. We all have but we don't have the scrunity that this man and his uncle have on a daily basis.

    We have a saying out here in the California mountains "take bigger steps, you'll get over it faster."

    August 19, 2009 02:04 pm at 2:04 pm |
  119. david

    see everyone? even the democrats have idiots, jerks, rip-off artists, fraud prone individuals, robbers of tax payer monies. good that he is paying back the city but would he if he hadn't been caught at it. the city managers, those who approved the farce, should be fired immediately. democrats, republicans both have idiots.

    August 19, 2009 02:06 pm at 2:06 pm |
  120. Karen - Missouri

    Another waste of tax dollars. Even kindergartners can budget better

    August 19, 2009 02:06 pm at 2:06 pm |
  121. JB - NYC

    Fine judgement mr Democrat

    August 19, 2009 02:07 pm at 2:07 pm |
  122. Thomas Ulrich

    Congratulations Mr. Cardin! A job well done..I'll chip in if you need it. So many of these people are just petty little minds...

    August 19, 2009 02:07 pm at 2:07 pm |
  123. S Callahan

    lol Oh come on.....this would have been a great opportunity for a training exercise, and SAVING money for the dept.....and a fun engagement for the gal and guy....
    Why does EVERTHING have to be projected as so awful?
    Congrats to the couple.....

    August 19, 2009 02:12 pm at 2:12 pm |
  124. Rob from Texas

    When will these Politicians ever learn. I'm sure the city wouldn't let me borrow their helicopter back when I proposed to my wife. And the worst thing is these people only get a mild slap on the wrist for wasting our tax dollars. These people should be prosecuted!

    August 19, 2009 02:12 pm at 2:12 pm |
  125. CBH

    CNN, hahaha, funny story; now can we please move to Health Care?

    August 19, 2009 02:13 pm at 2:13 pm |
  126. Operation Crush Rush

    How sweet .The mans in love and a bit irrational.Dont forget to turn your radio off when Rush goes to his many breaks,and keep those calls and emails going to him,he loves the feedback..

    August 19, 2009 02:14 pm at 2:14 pm |
  127. Dana Olson

    Good luck to his wife-to-be. I wonder what stunt he'll pull when she's giving birth to their first child.

    August 19, 2009 02:15 pm at 2:15 pm |
  128. Stupid Dems

    My favorite part of this story is how CNN just happened to leave out the fact that Sen. Cardin is a Democrat. I'm sure the nephew is also, as he has the typical democrat "it's all about me" attitude.

    August 19, 2009 02:16 pm at 2:16 pm |
  129. Mike in SA

    The ruling elite just doesn't get it. Time to kick out the arrogant, self-serving "lords" and get real "representatives" instead.

    August 19, 2009 02:17 pm at 2:17 pm |
  130. BaltoRes

    The nephew is not just related to a U.S. Senator, he is also a MD state delegate representing Baltimore County. Not as big a deal as some are making it, IMO, though there is an aura of arrogance about a legislator commandeering local law enforcement resources, plus there's the added insult to the City of having a County delegate mis-use City resources when they are desperately needed in the city's crime fight. And I don't know if CNN mentioned that the Marine Unit took part; it is partially funded with federal dollars for Homeland Security and is supposed to secure an urban port, not do "pretend raids" on the clock! Recently when their funding was reduced they complained that the port would be vulnerable, then they go and pull this stunt. Sheer stupidity.

    That the woman said yes is what I find to be the most indredulous aspect of the story! I think I would be demaning a re-do, with something more romantic!

    August 19, 2009 02:18 pm at 2:18 pm |
  131. Adam from Ohio

    You mentioned Bed Cardin, why? He's the uncle. Hey, I have an eight-month-old nephew. Am I responsible every time he poops in his diaper?

    August 19, 2009 02:19 pm at 2:19 pm |
  132. SEL

    I don't get it...what is romantic about a police raid? She'd better think twice...it might be a view into her future with him!

    August 19, 2009 02:21 pm at 2:21 pm |
  133. sunny

    Such a DUMBO! No wonder our country is going nuts.

    August 19, 2009 02:22 pm at 2:22 pm |
  134. Joe Unger, San Francisco

    Typical America today. People are so self-centered and oblivous to everyone else. The guy didn't think it through very well, which is standard behavior these days.
    Oh and then people have to complain about it too.
    We're a Nation of Whiners and a Nation of the Oblivous.

    August 19, 2009 02:22 pm at 2:22 pm |
  135. Dan

    I'm glad she said yes, just pay the money back knucklehead!

    August 19, 2009 02:25 pm at 2:25 pm |
  136. Liberal liars

    If I steal from my job I get fired, but not when you are a politician.

    August 19, 2009 02:25 pm at 2:25 pm |
  137. Denver Chung

    You guys are just jeolous. He has the money and resources to do what he wants and you dont.

    Leave the guy alone, he said he'll pay for it.

    August 19, 2009 02:28 pm at 2:28 pm |
  138. Laurie in Spokane

    And this is supposed to be newsworty? And, where does the Senator/uncle it into it? And, the woman said "yes" she'd marry such a moran who would pull such a stunt? CNN, get back to reporting relevant news.

    August 19, 2009 02:28 pm at 2:28 pm |
  139. carol

    Sorry – but I don't believe this for a second. How could this scenario be romantic?

    I think the boat actually WAS being searched for something and this is a cover-up. Sounds cynical – I know – but our politician's behavior has made us cynical.

    August 19, 2009 02:29 pm at 2:29 pm |
  140. Jesse

    In Maryland, this is an example of the run-amok nature of politics as usual. We are a state where the Democrats run the Executive, Legislative and Judicial branch, and this sort of crap happens ALL THE TIME. Marylanders just don't get it though...a Republican surplus was turned over to the Democrats, who have now spent it like a sailor in a Best Buy with 48 hours to live. It's appalling. I am an independent, and I almost can't stand to live in this state any more...

    Reading the story from the outside, it's no big deal...in context with the other corruption and crap that happens in Baltimore and Annapolis, it's nauseating. Delaware, here I come.

    August 19, 2009 02:30 pm at 2:30 pm |
  141. I would have said "No."

    What makes me laugh most is in what world did he think that a police search made a romantic backdrop for a proposal? That was the first lapse in judgment right there.

    August 19, 2009 02:30 pm at 2:30 pm |
  142. mark

    I'm glad he's not my state delegate. What an idiot!

    August 19, 2009 02:33 pm at 2:33 pm |
  143. George Sales

    Unfortunately, inept, spoiled relatives come from both sides of the political aisle. A lot of these folks have or develop a sense of entitlement.

    August 19, 2009 02:35 pm at 2:35 pm |
  144. babs in cali

    It's not just about the money. How many police were taken off the streets for this silly crap?

    August 19, 2009 02:36 pm at 2:36 pm |
  145. Mike

    The Baltimore Police Department is also conducting an internal investigation into who authorized this event. Cardin's nephew should also reimburse the city for this subsequent investigation. Cardin's nephew is a corrupt politician who feels as though all government resources are at his deposable since he is an elected official. He should be removed from office. How can a person like this who is so selfish make decisions that are in the best interest of those who elected him.

    August 19, 2009 02:38 pm at 2:38 pm |
  146. Jack

    Hey guys, he's paying for it because he GOT CAUGHT! Not because he is wanting to do the right thing. Get it right lefties! The guywasted tax payer money like BOTH parties due, this dem got caught and due to our liberal news in the country, they didn't mention his party or blow this out into a big mess like they would of if it were a rep. Vote all these bums out and lets start from scratch.

    August 19, 2009 02:40 pm at 2:40 pm |
  147. Jack

    Why are people asking why this is political? Use your head, not just anybody can pull strings like this, without saying it, he is involved with wasting tax payers money.

    August 19, 2009 02:42 pm at 2:42 pm |
  148. Dan

    Funny thing is, when the police come and serve him with the divorce papers... he'll find THAT romantic too!

    August 19, 2009 02:49 pm at 2:49 pm |
  149. Ron In California

    This has nothing to do with the Senator....why try to make a connection.

    August 19, 2009 02:53 pm at 2:53 pm |
  150. GGG

    Let me guess the Democrats are ok with this right??? pay back all the expenses to your stupidly act!!!

    August 19, 2009 02:53 pm at 2:53 pm |
  151. MLH

    I'm still not getting how this was supposed to be the perfect evening.

    August 19, 2009 02:55 pm at 2:55 pm |
  152. Mike

    Anyone want to hazard a guess as to what the media would be doing to this prank had it been a Republican instead of a Democrat? Please, do not try and tell me it would be the same. Unlike the individual involved in this escapade, I'm not stupid.

    August 19, 2009 02:56 pm at 2:56 pm |
  153. PK

    It's hard to believe something like this would even make the news, let alone CNN pages. Congratulations to the young couple, wishing you all the happiness and health you deserve. As for the story contributors and writers, take a look at what is going on in this country of ours and set limits of what you write about, that should keep you busy for a veryyyyyyy long time!!!

    August 19, 2009 02:57 pm at 2:57 pm |
  154. george

    You actually saw something newsworthy to a national and international audience in reporting this story?

    And what does the fact that this guy is a nephew of an appointee Senator have to do with anything?

    Seems you're having another "slow news day" CNN.

    August 19, 2009 02:58 pm at 2:58 pm |
  155. Roofin Reality, Houston, Tx.

    I think the guy has an odd sense of romanticism. But if she said yes, that's all that really matters (to him and to her).
    With that said, I've been on boats plenty of times. In fact, my last time out, my fishing party of 5 was approached by the game warden. They not only circled next to us, scaring away the fish we were catching, they boarded the boat.
    SO, if it's normal routine for 1) a helicopter to take an aerial viewpoint, and 2)the city's park and wildlife division to board boats for routine safety checks, it's not nearly as bad as it sounds.
    Unless of course, he told everyone what he was doing and they agreed to it.

    August 19, 2009 03:03 pm at 3:03 pm |
  156. themoi

    If he's that much of a stupid idiot they'll be divorced in 5 years or less and he'll be paying more than what the proposal cost in attorney and court fees.

    August 19, 2009 03:04 pm at 3:04 pm |
  157. Gene

    I can't believe people are so outraged about this. If you saw this on TV, you'd be laughing. Obviously the fiance could take a joke.. why can't the rest of us?

    August 19, 2009 03:04 pm at 3:04 pm |
  158. julie

    It is funny and he is re-imbursing the city. Get a life.

    August 19, 2009 03:05 pm at 3:05 pm |
  159. Larry

    The cops didn't have to join in the little game, now did they?

    August 19, 2009 03:06 pm at 3:06 pm |
  160. Carl Justus

    If anyone in charge has any brains they will send him a bill for the entire cost of the foolishness and also give him a fine of at least a thousand dollars to discourge this kind of thing in the future.

    August 19, 2009 03:07 pm at 3:07 pm |
  161. some gurl

    good grief, what a pompus idiot.
    His wife impressed??
    we're not.

    August 19, 2009 03:08 pm at 3:08 pm |
  162. Jim

    Sure he's paying it back – but only AFTER the stunt was made public. If it had never hit the media (or been made a big deal of), I guarantee you he would never have paid it back!

    Although he is not strictly a politician, the article states he is Maryland delegate, which is probably why is uncle Ben is apologizing for him.

    August 19, 2009 03:09 pm at 3:09 pm |
  163. catmom

    And this has what to do with Senator Cardin?

    August 19, 2009 03:09 pm at 3:09 pm |
  164. Carl

    Why isn't the Police Chief up on charges of waste, fraud and abuse? Do these "public servants" routinely waste public resources to perform personal services to pollitical family members?

    IS THIS WHY I PAY TAXES???

    August 19, 2009 03:11 pm at 3:11 pm |
  165. cjr

    do not marry this guy! he's a teenage idiot and will not grow up for several years.

    August 19, 2009 03:13 pm at 3:13 pm |
  166. LJ

    The article reference that Jon Cardin is a delegate – to or for what? That being said, I don't understand that this is a political problem so much as a PD problem. Since when does any administrative branch of a local government act in such an irresponsible and completely arbitrary way. Are we to assume that the Baltimore PD is open for personal requests such as this to any and all citizens they are responsible for in the greater Baltimore community? Have they got a web-site where requests can be processed? Do requests include the ranks of officers we would like to have participate in such spectacular displays of wasteful use of taxpayer dollars and cents? I hope Mr. Cardin got a least a sergeant or two for this particular event. Whom do we hold accountable for these sorts of decisions is the question that is to be asked.

    August 19, 2009 03:14 pm at 3:14 pm |
  167. d1120

    If you look up the word 'stupid' in the dictionary, is his picture there?

    August 19, 2009 03:18 pm at 3:18 pm |
  168. DX in TX

    As a Democrat I have to remind myself that there are as many priviledge Dems as there are entitled Rethuglicans.

    Presient Obama has his work cut out for him. It's hard to make change when you're surrounded by the "business as usual" mentality!

    August 19, 2009 03:19 pm at 3:19 pm |
  169. AntiRush

    And the police went along with this?

    August 19, 2009 03:21 pm at 3:21 pm |
  170. BeautifulSoul

    Are you kidding me??????????

    August 19, 2009 03:21 pm at 3:21 pm |
  171. Carlos

    Isn't this just like a dem, spending someone elses money.

    August 19, 2009 03:22 pm at 3:22 pm |
  172. Linda

    Just another example of our Politician's thinking they own the country. Abuse, abuse, abuse of our system and tax dollars. Your apology is completely worthless, just like ALL politicians are.

    August 19, 2009 03:22 pm at 3:22 pm |
  173. Michael from New Jersey

    The guy's an idiot.

    August 19, 2009 03:24 pm at 3:24 pm |
  174. Thomas Owen

    Really, a grown Man in an Elected position didn't realize that this was a bit "over the top" ? This is simply another example of abuse of position, power and the attitude of our Elected Officials.

    Really? He really didn't realize that this was wrong?? Really???

    August 19, 2009 03:24 pm at 3:24 pm |
  175. Phil

    Good for the nephew. If you have got connections, use them.

    August 19, 2009 03:27 pm at 3:27 pm |
  176. Thomas Owen

    It's Political because he (Jon S. Cardin) is a duly elected Maryland Delegate.
    It has nothing to do with his Uncle.

    August 19, 2009 03:28 pm at 3:28 pm |
  177. S

    It is Sen. Cardin's nephew, who just happens to be a Delegate in the Maryland State House. It's a classic case of a politician who believes he's above the law. I love how a lot of you find this to be no big deal; however, if it was a Republican who did this you'd want his head on a platter. I think the Baltimore Police Department had more important matters to attend to that day/night.

    August 19, 2009 03:32 pm at 3:32 pm |
  178. Nick 27, So Cal

    I think it was pretty clever!! Congrats to you and your bride to be!!

    August 19, 2009 03:36 pm at 3:36 pm |
  179. Steve (the real one)

    While some of you are still on the "blame Bush" kick, No way can anyone blame the Senator! Just send the romantic a bill with a warning and let's all go back to living our lives!

    August 19, 2009 03:36 pm at 3:36 pm |
  180. greg

    Why is this such a big deal so what he went over the top, I am sure that there was more to the story then the public is being told. As long as Jon pays back the city for what he did it is not that big of a deal. Get over it people

    August 19, 2009 03:38 pm at 3:38 pm |
  181. Lou

    Do they think the public smiles on stunts like this? If we rounded up all the wasted funds for stunts like this we could feed half the country. He should reimburse any charges. While they are doing a fly over some criminal is going about his business. THINK PEOPLE!!!!

    August 19, 2009 03:38 pm at 3:38 pm |
  182. Nic

    It makes me wonder what his other choices for "romantic" might have been. "MMM...maybe I'll have some of my buddies beat up a homeless man in front of her and THEN I'll get down on one knee....No, wait, maybe I can stage a fiery car crash and as the bodies burn, I will drop to one knee..."

    Here's a hint for his fiance: For your anniversary, ask for gift cards. Don't let this man try to think of anything else on his own.

    August 19, 2009 03:39 pm at 3:39 pm |
  183. Simply Wow

    If my fiance proposed via a police raid, I'd have some serious thoughts about saying 'yes'!

    August 19, 2009 03:40 pm at 3:40 pm |
  184. donttreadonme

    Lighten up people! It was not a good idea but when you let the current situation rob you of all the joy in life, it only makes life so much harder. The good news is that she said yes! Congrats!

    August 19, 2009 03:45 pm at 3:45 pm |
  185. mary shaw. colorado

    Will he go to that much preparation if there is a divorce later?

    August 19, 2009 03:47 pm at 3:47 pm |
  186. Cricketsong

    This story doesn't make sense to me. What were the police supposed to do, find the ring during the search or something? I don't get it. What if these policepeople were needed for a legitimate emergency during this time? Was it a police helicopter that was hovering around? And what does he mean by "put a stop to it"...he's the one who started it. The police should have known better!

    August 19, 2009 03:50 pm at 3:50 pm |
  187. forex

    Sounds like a good trip...

    August 19, 2009 03:51 pm at 3:51 pm |
  188. Jessica

    WE THE PEOPLE – hold the power.

    To me, this is the EXACT sort of thing these folks "dont consider" – all the time!

    Let's not just MAKE AN EXAMPLE OF HIM – let's start firing EVERY person who misuses funds...the "im paying it back" thing is akin to stealing, getting caught and saying "well, here's the money for the product"...theives go to jail, the least that should happen here is this fool loses his JOB!

    August 19, 2009 03:53 pm at 3:53 pm |
  189. Peter E

    Don't the police have anything better to do in Baltimore? Aren't there actual crimes being committed?

    August 19, 2009 03:56 pm at 3:56 pm |
  190. Limbaugh is a liberal

    Just proves: you can pay your way around the law in America! I wonder how many people were robbed/raped/murdered in Baltimore in the time it took to organize and pull off this stunt. All the policemen involved need to be replaced, perhaps with ones that do their JOB we're paying them for!

    August 19, 2009 03:58 pm at 3:58 pm |
  191. Amber

    What the heck is so romantic and special about the police raiding your boat????? The things men think are romantic!!! LOL Geez!

    August 19, 2009 03:59 pm at 3:59 pm |
  192. Limbaugh is a liberal

    Almost reminds me of the time President Bush delayed the return of thousands of sailors to set up a multi-million dollar (your tax money) photo-op on the USS Lincoln, declaring 'Mission Accomplished.'

    August 19, 2009 04:01 pm at 4:01 pm |
  193. michael serghides

    should be arrested and pay expenses and big fine.and far as her say yes ,who gives a .....

    August 19, 2009 04:03 pm at 4:03 pm |
  194. Bill

    Who cares?

    August 19, 2009 04:15 pm at 4:15 pm |
  195. Marshall B.

    you never spend money as wisely as you would your own.

    August 19, 2009 04:27 pm at 4:27 pm |
  196. Ravi

    OMG... she said yes!

    What kind of a lady considers a "police raid" to be romantic??

    August 19, 2009 04:38 pm at 4:38 pm |
  197. Norm

    Come on....how often does this kind of abuse go on and no one ever knows unless they get caught. Look at the Carolina Gov. using police SUVs to go on camping trips and charging the public for his sex trips to south america. These people are elite entitlists and this happens everyday and they could care less. it's special little club our elected officials belong to. We the Sheeple are abused like slaves.

    August 19, 2009 04:38 pm at 4:38 pm |
  198. Sniffit

    Another shady Republican family in the deep south that needs to be REMOVED from power!

    August 19, 2009 04:49 pm at 4:49 pm |
  199. rh

    Another liar. Wouldn't have said anything if not caught.

    August 19, 2009 04:49 pm at 4:49 pm |
  200. For He's A Jolly Good...What, A Bill?!

    Congratulations– now pay the bill.

    The citizens and most Americans are happy for the couple, but we are in a financial crisis. Every little bit counts. If he doesn't pay the bill, the taxpayers will have to. He should start doing the math now, because there will be a lot more bills to calculate, after he's married.

    August 19, 2009 04:58 pm at 4:58 pm |
  201. Nicole

    I was thinking the same thing. This is an indication of how easily state and/or federal resources are abused. Forget the amount, conside the principle that persons of responsibility should not use the resources of their employer for their personal benefit.

    How many times does this happen everyday without the culprit being called to account.

    August 19, 2009 04:59 pm at 4:59 pm |
  202. Annoyed in MD

    Clearly the guy figured he could use public resources any way he wanted. But, as a delegate from MD didn't he think that a proposal on the wall around Fort McHenry or at the foot of the Washington Monument or in one of the world class art museums or at one of the topnotch stadiums or the restored Hippodrome theater would have had more meaning? I mean, really...a police raid with the whirl of a helicopter. Glad I don't live in Baltimore County and have my interests represented in Annapolis by the likes of John Cardin!

    August 19, 2009 05:01 pm at 5:01 pm |
  203. trueblue

    He better get a BILL for this nonsense. What a bunch of know nothing, spoiled brats.

    August 19, 2009 05:13 pm at 5:13 pm |