Full remarks: Michelle Obama's speech at the DNC
September 4th, 2012
11:18 PM ET
8 years ago

Full remarks: Michelle Obama's speech at the DNC

(CNN) - The Democratic National Convention released the remarks prepared for Michelle Obama to deliver at the DNC convention in Charlotte, North Carolina on Tuesday evening.

Thank you so much, Elaine…we are so grateful for your family’s service and sacrifice…and we will always have your back.

Over the past few years as First Lady, I have had the extraordinary privilege of traveling all across this country.

And everywhere I’ve gone, in the people I’ve met, and the stories I’ve heard, I have seen the very best of the American spirit.

I have seen it in the incredible kindness and warmth that people have shown me and my family, especially our girls.

I’ve seen it in teachers in a near-bankrupt school district who vowed to keep teaching without pay.

I’ve seen it in people who become heroes at a moment’s notice, diving into harm’s way to save others…flying across the country to put out a fire…driving for hours to bail out a flooded town.

And I’ve seen it in our men and women in uniform and our proud military families…in wounded warriors who tell me they’re not just going to walk again, they’re going to run, and they’re going to run marathons…in the young man blinded by a bomb in Afghanistan who said, simply, “…I’d give my eyes 100 times again to have the chance to do what I have done and what I can still do.”

Every day, the people I meet inspire me…every day, they make me proud…every day they remind me how blessed we are to live in the greatest nation on earth.

Serving as your First Lady is an honor and a privilege…but back when we first came together four years ago, I still had some concerns about this journey we’d begun.

While I believed deeply in my husband’s vision for this country…and I was certain he would make an extraordinary President…like any mother, I was worried about what it would mean for our girls if he got that chance.

How would we keep them grounded under the glare of the national spotlight?

How would they feel being uprooted from their school, their friends, and the only home they’d ever known?

Our life before moving to Washington was filled with simple joys…Saturdays at soccer games, Sundays at grandma’s house…and a date night for Barack and me was either dinner or a movie, because as an exhausted mom, I couldn’t stay awake for both.

And the truth is, I loved the life we had built for our girls…I deeply loved the man I had built that life with…and I didn’t want that to change if he became President.

I loved Barack just the way he was.

You see, even though back then Barack was a Senator and a presidential candidate…to me, he was still the guy who’d picked me up for our dates in a car that was so rusted out, I could actually see the pavement going by through a hole in the passenger side door…he was the guy whose proudest possession was a coffee table he’d found in a dumpster, and whose only pair of decent shoes was half a size too small.

But when Barack started telling me about his family – that’s when I knew I had found a kindred spirit, someone whose values and upbringing were so much like mine.

You see, Barack and I were both raised by families who didn’t have much in the way of money or material possessions but who had given us something far more valuable – their unconditional love, their unflinching sacrifice, and the chance to go places they had never imagined for themselves.

My father was a pump operator at the city water plant, and he was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis when my brother and I were young.

And even as a kid, I knew there were plenty of days when he was in pain…I knew there were plenty of mornings when it was a struggle for him to simply get out of bed.

But every morning, I watched my father wake up with a smile, grab his walker, prop himself up against the bathroom sink, and slowly shave and button his uniform.

And when he returned home after a long day’s work, my brother and I would stand at the top of the stairs to our little apartment, patiently waiting to greet him…watching as he reached down to lift one leg, and then the other, to slowly climb his way into our arms.

But despite these challenges, my dad hardly ever missed a day of work…he and my mom were determined to give me and my brother the kind of education they could only dream of.

And when my brother and I finally made it to college, nearly all of our tuition came from student loans and grants.

But my dad still had to pay a tiny portion of that tuition himself.

And every semester, he was determined to pay that bill right on time, even taking out loans when he fell short.

He was so proud to be sending his kids to college…and he made sure we never missed a registration deadline because his check was late.

You see, for my dad, that’s what it meant to be a man.

Like so many of us, that was the measure of his success in life – being able to earn a decent living that allowed him to support his family.

And as I got to know Barack, I realized that even though he’d grown up all the way across the country, he’d been brought up just like me.

Barack was raised by a single mother who struggled to pay the bills, and by grandparents who stepped in when she needed help.

Barack’s grandmother started out as a secretary at a community bank…and she moved quickly up the ranks…but like so many women, she hit a glass ceiling.

And for years, men no more qualified than she was – men she had actually trained – were promoted up the ladder ahead of her, earning more and more money while Barack’s family continued to scrape by.

But day after day, she kept on waking up at dawn to catch the bus…arriving at work before anyone else…giving her best without complaint or regret.

And she would often tell Barack, “So long as you kids do well, Bar, that’s all that really matters.”

Like so many American families, our families weren’t asking for much.

They didn’t begrudge anyone else’s success or care that others had much more than they did...in fact, they admired it.

They simply believed in that fundamental American promise that, even if you don’t start out with much, if you work hard and do what you’re supposed to do, then you should be able to build a decent life for yourself and an even better life for your kids and grandkids.

That’s how they raised us…that’s what we learned from their example.

We learned about dignity and decency – that how hard you work matters more than how much you make…that helping others means more than just getting ahead yourself.

We learned about honesty and integrity – that the truth matters…that you don’t take shortcuts or play by your own set of rules…and success doesn’t count unless you earn it fair and square.

We learned about gratitude and humility – that so many people had a hand in our success, from the teachers who inspired us to the janitors who kept our school clean…and we were taught to value everyone’s contribution and treat everyone with respect.

Those are the values Barack and I – and so many of you – are trying to pass on to our own children.

That’s who we are.

And standing before you four years ago, I knew that I didn’t want any of that to change if Barack became President.

Well, today, after so many struggles and triumphs and moments that have tested my husband in ways I never could have imagined, I have seen firsthand that being president doesn’t change who you are – it reveals who you are.

You see, I’ve gotten to see up close and personal what being president really looks like.

And I’ve seen how the issues that come across a President’s desk are always the hard ones – the problems where no amount of data or numbers will get you to the right answer…the judgment calls where the stakes are so high, and there is no margin for error.

And as President, you can get all kinds of advice from all kinds of people.

But at the end of the day, when it comes time to make that decision, as President, all you have to guide you are your values, and your vision, and the life experiences that make you who you are.

So when it comes to rebuilding our economy, Barack is thinking about folks like my dad and like his grandmother.

He’s thinking about the pride that comes from a hard day’s work.

That’s why he signed the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act to help women get equal pay for equal work.

That’s why he cut taxes for working families and small businesses and fought to get the auto industry back on its feet.

That’s how he brought our economy from the brink of collapse to creating jobs again – jobs you can raise a family on, good jobs right here in the United States of America.

When it comes to the health of our families, Barack refused to listen to all those folks who told him to leave health reform for another day, another president.

He didn’t care whether it was the easy thing to do politically – that’s not how he was raised – he cared that it was the right thing to do.

He did it because he believes that here in America, our grandparents should be able to afford their medicine…our kids should be able to see a doctor when they’re sick…and no one in this country should ever go broke because of an accident or illness.

And he believes that women are more than capable of making our own choices about our bodies and our health care…that’s what my husband stands for.

When it comes to giving our kids the education they deserve, Barack knows that like me and like so many of you, he never could’ve attended college without financial aid.

And believe it or not, when we were first married, our combined monthly student loan bills were actually higher than our mortgage.

We were so young, so in love, and so in debt.

That’s why Barack has fought so hard to increase student aid and keep interest rates down, because he wants every young person to fulfill their promise and be able to attend college without a mountain of debt.

So in the end, for Barack, these issues aren’t political – they’re personal.

Because Barack knows what it means when a family struggles.

He knows what it means to want something more for your kids and grandkids.

Barack knows the American Dream because he’s lived it…and he wants everyone in this country to have that same opportunity, no matter who we are, or where we’re from, or what we look like, or who we love.

And he believes that when you’ve worked hard, and done well, and walked through that doorway of opportunity…you do not slam it shut behind you…you reach back, and you give other folks the same chances that helped you succeed.

So when people ask me whether being in the White House has changed my husband, I can honestly say that when it comes to his character, and his convictions, and his heart, Barack Obama is still the same man I fell in love with all those years ago.

He’s the same man who started his career by turning down high paying jobs and instead working in struggling neighborhoods where a steel plant had shut down, fighting to rebuild those communities and get folks back to work…because for Barack, success isn’t about how much money you make, it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.

He’s the same man who, when our girls were first born, would anxiously check their cribs every few minutes to ensure they were still breathing, proudly showing them off to everyone we knew.

That’s the man who sits down with me and our girls for dinner nearly every night, patiently answering their questions about issues in the news, and strategizing about middle school friendships.

That’s the man I see in those quiet moments late at night, hunched over his desk, poring over the letters people have sent him.

The letter from the father struggling to pay his bills…from the woman dying of cancer whose insurance company won’t cover her care…from the young person with so much promise but so few opportunities.

I see the concern in his eyes...and I hear the determination in his voice as he tells me, “You won’t believe what these folks are going through, Michelle…it’s not right. We’ve got to keep working to fix this. We’ve got so much more to do.”

I see how those stories – our collection of struggles and hopes and dreams – I see how that’s what drives Barack Obama every single day.

And I didn’t think it was possible, but today, I love my husband even more than I did four years ago…even more than I did 23 years ago, when we first met.

I love that he’s never forgotten how he started.

I love that we can trust Barack to do what he says he’s going to do, even when it’s hard – especially when it’s hard.

I love that for Barack, there is no such thing as “us” and “them” – he doesn’t care whether you’re a Democrat, a Republican, or none of the above…he knows that we all love our country…and he’s always ready to listen to good ideas…he’s always looking for the very best in everyone he meets.

And I love that even in the toughest moments, when we’re all sweating it – when we’re worried that the bill won’t pass, and it seems like all is lost – Barack never lets himself get distracted by the chatter and the noise.

Just like his grandmother, he just keeps getting up and moving forward…with patience and wisdom, and courage and grace.

And he reminds me that we are playing a long game here…and that change is hard, and change is slow, and it never happens all at once.

But eventually we get there, we always do.

We get there because of folks like my Dad…folks like Barack’s grandmother…men and women who said to themselves, “I may not have a chance to fulfill my dreams, but maybe my children will…maybe my grandchildren will.”

So many of us stand here tonight because of their sacrifice, and longing, and steadfast love…because time and again, they swallowed their fears and doubts and did what was hard.

So today, when the challenges we face start to seem overwhelming – or even impossible – let us never forget that doing the impossible is the history of this nation…it’s who we are as Americans…it’s how this country was built.

And if our parents and grandparents could toil and struggle for us…if they could raise beams of steel to the sky, send a man to the moon, and connect the world with the touch of a button…then surely we can keep on sacrificing and building for our own kids and grandkids.

And if so many brave men and women could wear our country’s uniform and sacrifice their lives for our most fundamental rights…then surely we can do our part as citizens of this great democracy to exercise those rights…surely, we can get to the polls and make our voices heard on Election Day.

If farmers and blacksmiths could win independence from an empire…if immigrants could leave behind everything they knew for a better life on our shores…if women could be dragged to jail for seeking the vote…if a generation could defeat a depression, and define greatness for all time…if a young preacher could lift us to the mountaintop with his righteous dream…and if proud Americans can be who they are and boldly stand at the altar with who they love…then surely, surely we can give everyone in this country a fair chance at that great American Dream.

Because in the end, more than anything else, that is the story of this country – the story of unwavering hope grounded in unyielding struggle.

That is what has made my story, and Barack’s story, and so many other American stories possible.

And I say all of this tonight not just as First Lady…and not just as a wife.

You see, at the end of the day, my most important title is still “mom-in-chief.”

My daughters are still the heart of my heart and the center of my world.

But today, I have none of those worries from four years ago about whether Barack and I were doing what’s best for our girls.

Because today, I know from experience that if I truly want to leave a better world for my daughters, and all our sons and daughters…if we want to give all our children a foundation for their dreams and opportunities worthy of their promise…if we want to give them that sense of limitless possibility – that belief that here in America, there is always something better out there if you’re willing to work for it…then we must work like never before…and we must once again come together and stand together for the man we can trust to keep moving this great country forward…my husband, our President, President Barack Obama.

Thank you, God bless you, and God bless America.

soundoff (72 Responses)
  1. Raihan Khan


    September 4, 2012 11:25 pm at 11:25 pm |
  2. Mack

    Great job!

    September 4, 2012 11:27 pm at 11:27 pm |
  3. Kent

    Is Ari Fleischer really serious in his inability to recognize a great speech by First Lady Michelle Obama. Further, he states that Mitt Romney was not a public figure and therefore his wife had to introduce him. Let me thing...multi-millionaire, Olympic coordinator, governor of a state, and ran for President in 2008 and 2012. I think we know him by now. Ari – fess up and admit Michelle gave a great speech. I am a Democrat and Anne gave a good speech (just not better than Michelle's though).

    September 4, 2012 11:28 pm at 11:28 pm |
  4. "When you walk through the door of opportunity, you do not close it, you reach behind you and help someone else" Michelle O!


    September 4, 2012 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm |
  5. Larry L

    Fabulous, moving speech! The First Lady knocked it out of the park!

    September 4, 2012 11:32 pm at 11:32 pm |
  6. Pete

    What an inspiring speech,so down to earth,it drew you to her.Their struggles,much like all of us,not that of wealthy elitist that say hey give me 10-20 gran for college when the Obamas got loans and grants for theirs,their parents also helped.The Obamas didn't have money from wealthy parents to fall back on,like Romney did.Romney was born in wealth,Obama wrote books if you know to earn his.Romneys never worked for the common man,only his investors that's who he answered too at Bain.Pres.Obama is for the working man,woman and its fitting his wife as surrogate spoke so well to relay that message,that he for you,not corporate America that Romney has always been for...Great speech Mrs Obama,keep up the great work,our president needs it!!

    September 4, 2012 11:33 pm at 11:33 pm |
  7. "When you walk through the door of opportunity, you do not close it, you reach behind you and help someone else" Michelle O!

    Michelle O for 2016!

    September 4, 2012 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm |
  8. Nuance

    I was impressed.

    September 4, 2012 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm |
  9. David Leader - OKC


    Our First Lady was exceptional tonight!

    September 4, 2012 11:41 pm at 11:41 pm |
  10. The Unsub

    Mrs. President?

    September 4, 2012 11:42 pm at 11:42 pm |
  11. Kackylacky

    This was an awesome speech. I thought Mrs. Romney did well last week, but honestly there is no comparison. I was impressed because she knew this speech, she didn't need teleprompters.............and she MEAN'T EVERY word!

    September 4, 2012 11:43 pm at 11:43 pm |
  12. susan - Laguna Hills

    Words of wisdom! Americans are blessed to have them in the White House to lead us! Definitely FOUR MORE YEARS!

    September 4, 2012 11:44 pm at 11:44 pm |
  13. kristine

    Wow! amazingly put. love Michelle!! So inspirational

    September 4, 2012 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm |
  14. vc

    Brava Michelle and brava to all the women who spoke tonight!!!

    September 4, 2012 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm |
  15. myviewis

    Notice that in everything Michelle said not once did she say the government helped her or her brother realize their dreams. All the speakers said it was their hard working parents that got them where they are, not the government.

    Michelle's dad had to pay a tiny portion of the tuition.
    Her dad took loans, made sure he never missed a registration deadline
    Her dad went to work even in pain, hardly ever missed work
    Pride comes from a hard day's work
    Good jobs are right here in the USA
    Her dad was determined to give her and her brother the education he and his wife could only dream of
    That's what it meant to her father to be a man
    Their unflinching sacrifice

    Great points Michelle made all referencing her dad and mom, not one point references that our government made it happen for her or her brother.

    Castro also in his speech did not say the government did it for me, it was his mother.

    September 4, 2012 11:48 pm at 11:48 pm |
  16. Carol

    Michelle Obama spoke from the heart, which made her inner beauty also shine forth along with her outer beauty. She's a truly strong and brilliant mother, wife, and first lady. Best first lady ever!!!!

    September 4, 2012 11:48 pm at 11:48 pm |
  17. Dee

    Great speech the first night helped brings awareness to the accomplishments of the President and that there is more work to be done .

    September 4, 2012 11:50 pm at 11:50 pm |
  18. kannonbowl

    OUR first lady made US all proud tonight and put a tear in more then a few eyes across this nation. She has showed herself to be one class act for the last four years, but tonight she raised the bar. President Obama is one lucky guy, and we are lucky to have them both. VOTE

    September 4, 2012 11:51 pm at 11:51 pm |
  19. concerned citizen

    If she wants to leave a better world for her daughters, she should fire her husband. I was a huge supporter for the president, but unfortunately he didn't keep many promises he made and this economy has hit our life so hard. I totally agree President Obama is a very good, decent person. But, for the position of the U.S. president, I prefer to have somebody who is competent to do the jobs rather than a good person.

    September 4, 2012 11:51 pm at 11:51 pm |
  20. Stephanie F.

    If you was not moved and inspired by that speech then I feel sorry for your soul......I don't know what people are looking for in the republicans but they will not find the answers from them.....I watched all nights of the RNC and looking in the audience it did NOT look like the America I know......The DNC audience IS America!......Mrs. Obama spoke to ALL of us! ......Well done!.......Now everybody get out there and vote this womans husband back into office!.....I don't want to go back to the 1950s!

    September 4, 2012 11:52 pm at 11:52 pm |
  21. angela

    Well done job the massage was clear related to all american that makes the 99 percent in this country. The moments shared where we all strougle to pay our student loan at the same time to support our children. Michele threw the ball outside the park where Mrs.Rummey will never be able to catch it.

    September 4, 2012 11:52 pm at 11:52 pm |
  22. dorcine

    Great speech First Lady! President Obama and First Lady knows and understands the struggles and hard work it takes to be who and where you want to be in life. Im a single mom of seven and I know what too well of the struggles. Family is important to me also.

    September 4, 2012 11:55 pm at 11:55 pm |
  23. kannonbowl

    Obama as well as all of America are lucky to have such a class act as our first lady, may God bless

    September 4, 2012 11:55 pm at 11:55 pm |
  24. Mark

    Amazing speech. Last week was so negative. Is this the best the Republicans can offer. They need to follow the Obamas lead. It is like night and day. Per David Gergen own words. two more nights like this the race is wide open. Obama will be re elected. Note for Republicans, money can't by you everything

    September 4, 2012 11:55 pm at 11:55 pm |
  25. JAF

    I am registered GOP but after that speech and knowing that I refused to support sneaky Mitt in 2008, which I hope we all realize that GOP only began to support ony after the others fell by the way side. Mrs. OBAMA just made the decision for me, I will be crossing party line and voting in favor of the president this November. And Mitt please don't run again, In 2012 I hope to vote Jed Bush.

    September 4, 2012 11:58 pm at 11:58 pm |
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