July 23rd, 2013
06:45 PM ET
8 years ago

Weiner, with wife at side, says lewd exchanges happened after resignation

Updated at 10:13 p.m. ET on 7/23

(CNN) - With his wife by his side, New York mayoral candidate and former congressman Anthony Weiner said Tuesday that some of the sexually explicit online exchanges that were published by a gossip website happened after his resignation from the U.S. House in 2011.

"Some of these things happened before my resignation, some happened after," Weiner said at a hastily organized press conference in New York, where he also pushed back when asked if the latest revelation would prompt him to drop out of the race.

His remarks came hours after screenshots of sexually charged conversations and photographs appeared on a gossip website which alleged the communications were between Weiner and a young woman last summer.

Weiner resigned his House seat in New York after admitting to sending lewd photographs and images to multiple women.

In an extraordinary move, Weiner's wife, Huma Abedin, appeared beside her husband Tuesday and made brief remarks backing him.

"What I want to say is I love him, I have forgiven him, I believe in him, and as I have said from the beginning, we are moving forward," said Abedin, a top adviser to Hillary Clinton, adding that Weiner had made some "horrible mistakes, both before he resigned from Congress, and after."

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Weiner resisted calls from some of his rivals for the Democratic mayoral nomination to give up his bid, adding, "I'm sure many of my opponents would like me to drop out of the race."

The New York chapter of the National Organization for Woman called on Weiner to withdraw from the race following his press conference.

"As if we didn't already have enough evidence of Anthony Weiner's utter lack of judgment, impulse control and honesty, these latest revelations show the degree to which his candidacy distracts us from the important business of choosing the next leader of New York City," Sonia Ossorio, the president of the group, wrote in a statement.

The editorial board of the New York Times followed suit, writing "At some point, the full story of Anthony Weiner and his sexual relationships and texting habits will finally be told. In the meantime, the serially evasive Mr. Weiner should take his marital troubles and personal compulsions out of the public eye, away from cameras, off the Web and out of the race for mayor of New York City."

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Earlier in the day, Weiner released a statement admitting that some of the conversations and photos that appeared on the website TheDirty.com were his.

"While some things that have been posted today are true and some are not, there is no question that what I did was wrong," Weiner said.

In the statement, Weiner pointed to previous comments he made around the time he announced his bid for New York City mayor, in which he said it was possible for more photos to come out as he made a re-entry into politics.

"I said that other texts and photos were likely to come out, and today they have," he said Tuesday.

The exchanges that surfaced Tuesday were revealed about a year after they allegedly took place and in the middle of Weiner's Democratic primary campaign for New York mayor.

"This behavior is behind me. I've apologized to Huma and am grateful that she has worked through these issues with me and for her forgiveness," he said.

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In facing reporters, Weiner was supported by his wife, who in emotional comments discussed the couple's struggles to save their marriage.

"I made the decision that it was worth staying in this marriage," she said. "That was a decision I made for me, for our son, and for our family."

"This was the first time we heard his wife, Huma Abedin, speak at a press conference, but also speak about these issues," CNN Chief Congressional Correspondent Dana Bash said. "This wasn't just a scene of a wife standing by her political man. This was a wife coming up to the cameras, coming up to the microphones, and talking, which was frankly extraordinary. She is somebody who isn't just a wife. She is very politically savvy."

"Maybe most importantly, she learned at the knee of Hillary Clinton, somebody who most famously stood by her man politically. And so she's following in those footsteps,” Bash continued.

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As Weiner's latest scandal unfolded, Harper's Bazaar published excerpts of an article Abedin wrote for the magazine.

"Three years ago I was a single workaholic, traveling the globe with an amazing job at the U.S. State Department. I could not have imagined how much my life would change in three short years," Abedin wrote for the magazine's September issue.

"Today I'm married, with a feisty 20-month-old son, a full-time job, and a husband running for mayor of New York."

Abedin said she has kept her personal life private for years, and no one is more surprised than she is to see herself on the campaign trail.

"So why am I doing this? Because Anthony has always been a smart, caring, and dedicated person, and while he's the same public servant who wants what's best for the people he represents, he is now something else-a better man," Abedin wrote.

Weiner’s public remarks came after chat messages purporting to be from Weiner were published on the website TheDirty.com. The post cited a "solid" source alleging Weiner engaged in lewd online conversations with her, and reproduced lengthy chats that were sexual in nature.

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The woman, 22, says Weiner vowed to secure her a place on a panel hosted by Politico, as well as purchase a condominium for her in Chicago.

"I just want people to really know he's lying when he acts like he has changed," the unnamed woman told TheDirty.

In one instance, an explicit photo was published that the site claimed Weiner sent to the woman online. The name Weiner used online was "Carlos Danger," according to TheDirty.com

Weiner, who represented parts of Brooklyn and Queens, resigned from Congress after admitting to sending lewd photographs to multiple women online. At first he hedged on whether the photos were of him, including in an interview with CNN's Wolf Blitzer.

"It certainly doesn't look familiar to me, but I don't want to say with certitude to you something that I don't know to be the certain truth," Weiner said at the time.

After more reports of online exchanges with other women surfaced, fellow Democrats encouraged Weiner to resign, which he ultimately did after confessing to the indiscretions.

In the run-up to his mayoral bid, which he launched in May, he said more photos could emerge.

"If reporters want to go and try to find more, I can't say they're not going to be able to find another picture, find another person who may want to come out on their own," he told RNN Television. "But I'm not going to contribute to that. The basics of the story are not going to change. It's behind me. It was a huge mistake."

Polls taken over the past several weeks have shown Weiner either leading his closest rival for the Democratic mayoral nomination, City Council Speaker Christine Quinn, or trailing her in second place.

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soundoff (1,191 Responses)
  1. PoBoy

    Really? I thought his wife was smart? Please send this loser and his loss wife packing (no pun intended). If New Yorkers elect this scoundrel as it's next Mayor, they will have proved to world, that they are as clueless as most of us thought.

    July 23, 2013 08:58 pm at 8:58 pm |
  2. Jim woods

    Talk about a narcissistic, moron. this guy only wants power. Don't give it to him. Make him scurry off to some dark place. Our leaders are supposed to be above reproach. We know that's not not the case for the bulk of our leaders, but hey they at least make a show of it. not him.

    July 23, 2013 08:58 pm at 8:58 pm |
  3. mjschriner

    He's even worse than Bob "Filthner" in San Diego.

    July 23, 2013 08:59 pm at 8:59 pm |
  4. mikes

    That's it? Bloomberg v Weiner? If NYC can't come up with better than that, they'd better recognize the fact that they're a backwater.

    July 23, 2013 08:59 pm at 8:59 pm |
  5. MonkeyBusiness

    Not his fault. When he resigned from congress, he did the only thing he could –> texting.

    this is absolute choking of his "Freedom of expressions" 🙂

    July 23, 2013 09:00 pm at 9:00 pm |
  6. phil

    Sold he soul for money and power.

    July 23, 2013 09:00 pm at 9:00 pm |
  7. polonelmeagrejr

    She seems like a formidable woman.

    July 23, 2013 09:01 pm at 9:01 pm |
  8. phil

    Sold her soul for money and power.

    July 23, 2013 09:01 pm at 9:01 pm |
  9. peggycrough

    Ok Mrs. Weiner. Quit being such a doormat and kick this loser to the curb. I understand why you gave him the first chance but not the second. He himself said that some of the occurrences happened recently, certainly since his first apology so are you really ok with the behavior? I hope so because it is very unlikely to end anytime soon but in the meantime you are looking very weak and inefffective.

    July 23, 2013 09:01 pm at 9:01 pm |
  10. Too Bad

    Only Republicans can come back from these scandals after they've "been forgiven" by "god."

    July 23, 2013 09:03 pm at 9:03 pm |
  11. Garth

    Too bad his ego is bigger than his nose and his wife is just going down the same road that Hillary Clinton took, standing by his side to advance her own political career. These people have no shame and this piece of garbage will be elected the next mayor of NYC, mark my words! New Yorkers are just as pathetic as the people they elect to office. Example Spitzer and Cuomo

    July 23, 2013 09:04 pm at 9:04 pm |
  12. Reality

    Trust is not earned by asking for trust. Trust is earned by the truth of one’s actions.

    When someone’s actions show you who they truly are, you should believe them the first time. If you sit and wait for the inevitable encore, you are a fool.

    July 23, 2013 09:05 pm at 9:05 pm |
  13. Arizona

    Well of course he's ready to be mayor! He's already proven himself to be a complete SCHMUCK. And watch, he'll still get elected! Unbelievable.

    July 23, 2013 09:05 pm at 9:05 pm |
  14. Giggity Giggity

    Poor Quaqmire just can't keep it in his pants, giggity giggity goo..

    July 23, 2013 09:08 pm at 9:08 pm |
  15. Harry

    "I forgive him." (Now somebody help her with her burka).

    July 23, 2013 09:08 pm at 9:08 pm |
  16. Reality

    Trust is not earned by asking for trust. Trust is earned by the truth of one’s actions.

    When someone’s actions show you who they truly are, you should believe them the first time. If you sit and wait for the inevitable encore, you deserve what happens next.

    July 23, 2013 09:08 pm at 9:08 pm |
  17. loyalright

    I figured his name alone would not let him back into politics. I guess there was no room in the private sector for him.

    July 23, 2013 09:09 pm at 9:09 pm |
  18. Bond

    To become a double "OO" you have to be a LOOSER!

    July 23, 2013 09:09 pm at 9:09 pm |
  19. Rob

    Hey man, Weiner likes showing his weener!!! LOL

    July 23, 2013 09:10 pm at 9:10 pm |
  20. Guest

    For those that wonder why anyone cares what this guy does in private, here's a quick explanation:

    He doesn't live his life in private. He decided to be a public figure. He also made certain promises to his wife when he married her that he has chosen not to keep. This repeated behavior highlights a character flaw and indicates that he may do things he said he wouldn't in the future.

    July 23, 2013 09:10 pm at 9:10 pm |
  21. looksLikeForest

    This guy should have a daily aids test... it's like -has he caught it yet?

    July 23, 2013 09:11 pm at 9:11 pm |
  22. a_writer

    The guy is a creep with no chance of redemption. His wife, unfortunately, appears to have gotten used to being a freeloader of tax payer money and want to rake it in again. Of course, she will forgive him for anything. If the voters have any sense at all they will drop this guy like a used diaper.

    July 23, 2013 09:12 pm at 9:12 pm |
  23. a real wiener

    Once a Weiner always a Weiner!

    July 23, 2013 09:13 pm at 9:13 pm |
  24. addie

    What is wrong with these women who stand by their man when he acts like this? She should throw her husband to the dogs like the one he is. These immature, self-absorbed adolescents men show never be in a position of power. Their lack of judgement is appalling. I swear, if a woman of power did this she would be tarred and feathered. If the wives of these boys were smart, they would leave them and run for public office themselves.

    July 23, 2013 09:13 pm at 9:13 pm |
  25. ZoeyJ

    Who cares.......??? Jealous he didn't send it to all of you judgemental church hacks.
    He could have started two wars, stoled a presidential election, wrecked the American economy and made the working class the working poor.
    Take your hands off the keyboards and put them back on your privates.

    July 23, 2013 09:15 pm at 9:15 pm |
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